Appreciate all the kind words everyone. Toots, thanks for your positive words, and Wonka, thanks as always for your insight.

It's a challenging time to say the least. She really seems to be reaching out for contact. It's different. She said she misses me and she still loves me, but she is still involved in her affair. Sad in many ways that she can't see through the blinders, she admitted that she was never one to consider long term consequences......

Going to keep on keeping and keep my head up. Not sure what the future holds except for what I need for me. That's half the battle. I haven't mentioned the future in any way, and don't plan on it anytime soon.

I'd be remiss if I didn't mention the tragedy that is two people in a union willing to work on their problems together, only at different times and not at the same time for either of them. So much damage has been done....all good lessons for me going forward.

Cheers

Dev


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive