Ganb8te 5 - Escaping the abyss

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Hi Gan - it may be too much to try and get him to sign up to meeting. What if you were just to say you hope he's doing ok and that you're heading off to Europe for a few weeks for X and y..and looking forward to it.

He may not reply
He may reply and say I'm doing great - have a good time
He may reply and say I'm doing great - have a good time - may be good to meet up when you get back...

I think his response will give you more of a feel for where he's at and you can maybe have a think about what you want to do next...

Good Advice Toots! I really like that approach.