Hey Toots, haven't commented because I don't have much to offer here, no experience in the way of dividing resources or Hs who appear and disappear, but I wanted to say I think you're doing really well and managing your hopes and expectations extremely well. Keep going! You look to be on the right track. H can reappear if and when he wants.
Good luck with the freelance work!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
