Thank you it took all of my beeing not to write and defend myself and point out her warpped sense of things and the same thing she is talking to me about she does. Especially made me angry because I never talk crap, I state facts and that is it. and I don't name call. But I think to defend would just warrant she seeing me as still strung along. And I think that is her plan. I can't think of any other reason for staying at the house when she could be with OM.