Just an interesting observation about what happened this week... W discovered that I had confided in a close member of her family and this family member told others which resulted in a bad experience for W this past weekend where she felt judged and shunned by her immediate family members.
Prior to this happening, if you had asked me what I expected to happen when/if she found this information out, I would have said "Oh, I expect her to go into full-on Monster mode!"
But she didn't.
She seemed very hurt, but after we talked about it... She's just been fairly civil with me - a bit distant and not as friendly as last week... but civil... Not interpreting this as a positive sign towards reconciliation, but just observing that what I thought would happen did not happen... Of course, nothing makes sense in MLC and at some point she could go into monster-mode over this, but for now it hasn't happened.
And I just find that interesting.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
