"I did manage my expectations but its hard not to have a boost to hope sometimes."

I know, I struggle with this. When I heard from H, I got hopeful that we might be in contact again...maybe meet, sort out some house stuff together etc. It isn't easy to have no expectations.

I guess the main thing is that we manage not to go into a tailspin when our hopes are raised and then we are disappointed.

You're doing great, and I'm looking forward to hearing about your GAL. Next week, I'm off to make chocolates with a local ladies group. Their motto is fun, friendship, fundraising - so, we'll see how that goes!


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus