Devotion To A Dream

[phunguy]

There was a lot more interaction than me being stone faced. I did do a lot of validating. Maybe I should have given the blow by blow but I'm busy at work today, and for me saying I'm stone faced means, I didn't try too hard or get angry. Which is what I would have done in the past, she talked for almost 30 mins, I would have talked over her and told her how her feelings were not appropriate and that she was wrong to feel that way. I listened mostly (stone faced trying not to get emotional because what we were discussing is incredibly tough for me and her) to her and talked to her about how we have to work together and that my parents will always welcome her to family parties, that she will always be welcome at my parents home and that we will need to be at birthdays, and events in the future together. That no matter what happens we will have to put our children first and work together most likely needing to have better communication than we had in the past.

Sorry I should have typed it all out.