The one line she always says to me is she loves me and will always be there for me and take care of me. But then she says she can't stay married to me because she doesn't have those magic feelings anymore. I said a line to her 3 weeks ago that she brings up every time we argue. I told love is choice not a feeling. I know what I meant by it and I know there is truth to that line. But I learned it is not the proper thing to say to a WAW.
Another thing is even though she thinks I did nothing all day as she is getting estimates on the things I did do around the house they cost a great deal of money. The estimate to have lawn service cut a lawn our size is over $200 per cut. Over $100 to have the driveway plowed. The price of our daughters security of having a parent there to get her to and from school priceless.
I know I am trying to think with logic and logic got me in trouble.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15