Alright, thank you! That's what I thought but my brain temporarily went into a tailspin.

See, I know how I would handle hanging out with another man when I'm in my M but now I don't know how to deal with it! None of my previous methods would work here (bringing H along, asking if he's ok with it, texting him while I am with the other guy etc). The whole thing just got my brain twisted into a pretzel.

Should be ok now - i reiterated my position and B has promised not to say anything to H.

Now I just need to get a grip on the anger and resentment I'm still stewing in.


Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.