"Hey H, Would you be available for drinks on X date? Will have just gotten back from Europe and would love to ________ (tell you all about it, see you, figure out what the hell you're doing, tell you about this new band I found."
I can't gently anything. I'm more of a forceful rammer (ooohhh naughty), but I do think it's good that you're reaching out.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15