Gan,

What about:

"Hey H, Would you be available for drinks on X date? Will have just gotten back from Europe and would love to ________ (tell you all about it, see you, figure out what the hell you're doing, tell you about this new band I found."

I can't gently anything. I'm more of a forceful rammer (ooohhh naughty), but I do think it's good that you're reaching out.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15