Rysin, sorry things haven't started well with your W staying. I agree that you should confirm boundaries with her. I don't think you should avoid female friends because of what your W says. But I do think you should take care to ensure your interactions with them stand up well to any scrutiny. Otherwise, your W is welcome to whatever thoughts she may have...IMHO.


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus