I am still not positive she is having an affair. I know there are some signs that point that way but she was raised in an abusive household. Her dad was an alcoholic and her mom was extremely possessive of her and never let her do anything. When we met and started dating her parents hated me and would do anything to keep us apart. Well she choose me and they threw her out only to never talk to her again. As the years went on I now see that I was always trying to control her as well. I do not know if W found someone else and is having an affair or is really doing what she says she is and that is just hanging out with girlfriends because she was never able to.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15