I just spoke to her about counseling again this morning. She says she is not ready to go. I mentioned that I thought some of her physical issues might be anxiety-related, and she agreed. I told her counseling would help. I told her that I understood that she isn't ready, but if the physical issues continue that we would need to see a doctor, and a counselor. She seemed to understand.

Sometimes I think she just doesn't want to be forced to talk about things on a schedule. Some days she is open to sharing her feelings, others not so much. And I'm sure for her there is the fear of the unknown.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!