Well my H has given me several more chances to validate. He is constantly telling me how much he misses our D. And yet he doesn't ask to make plans to see her. He is staying about 30 min away from our house. So I don't really know what is stopping him. But I don't ask. Or accuse. So I just try to validate. I just acknowledge how difficult this time is, and that I'm sorry he is hurting. I am not going to mention again my hopes that we will work on our marriage. He knows that's what I want. I have to keep reminding myself of that. There is no need for me to say it, it will only come across as pressuring him. Last night he texted me to just check in. I tried to be positive but brief. I am trying really hard to give him space and let him initiate our conversations.
In other news, I went out with my mother last night and had such a great time watching a play. Laughed more than I have in a long time and it felt great!
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015
