Well w locked herself out, luckilly I still had a spare key in the kitchen drawer (in with a load of others) as neither mil/fil were around.

Went around and let her in and left the key with her, she mentioned she'll get another cut and give it back to me. Confused conversation and w just seemed to be feeling hassled about me asking should we have a key to each others places (as I did, now I dont and she said she'll give me another - I wasn't suggesting her moving in or anything that would deserve a slap from everyone!).

To be fair I think she was just feeling a bit pushed so I made my exit as soon as I could (and I had to run anyway as I had a conference call 15 minutes later).

She did say she's not ruling anything in or anything out but doesn't want to feel pressured if we're spending time together.

I'm not sure why she feels pressured but I'll take that as a reason to back waaaaay off for now. Hey ho suppose it feeds into the w is definitely conflicted thoughts. I only went there as she locked herself out though, left me feeling a bit down tbh but hey ho on with the game.

Last edited by edz; 03/04/15 04:06 PM.

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015