Jb

Sensible decision on your part, let her immediate family track the health of STBX.

Sounds like STBX is looping her thoughts, you are correct to use broken record as a technique in this. Minimising contact will ease your burdens. STBX is also stringing to you and will have to face the consequences of her decisions asap for your sanity and wellbeing. Brave Jb: you need your space and time to heal.

Consider training STBX to use texts, so that when she rings say 'please text me, gotta go now, bye'or let it go to answerphone then text 'missed your call, please text your request'. And respond to texts not calls. Start by minimising responses and gradually add delay to the texts. A little like a weaning process. In the last instance for example, 'your banks helpline tel no 12345 can help you with quick pay, suggest you ring them'. We have to do this with demanding clients who will not pay the bills but want a lot of extra service.

Great GAL plans Jb.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/04/15 03:35 PM.
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