Originally Posted By: Jer2911
But then again -- I do have to keep in mind that now there are some real consequences occurring for her as a result of her actions.


Abso-freakin-lutely....

It shows a detachment, allowing the MLCer to "own" their decisions. And I feel that it is one of the most vital things.

The sense of relief when you finally are able to set their luggage down, and stop carrying it for them.

It doesn't mean to relish in that, or even want for it. Just, simply, the best thing for BOTH of you..

Keep moving forward...you are doing well