Thanks Gan,

I honestly don't know if its a big thing or not. If I'm honest I felt it was a big gesture both at the time and now but I immediately question myself as to whether I'm overreacting! I therefore said nothing bar the cheese (cheeeeeeeeese) cake related Mmmm very nice / thank yous smile

My current read is at the very least she's conflicted as to where she wants to go. Nothing in stone about a date (calendar date not "date") to go to dinner so it's best I let things trundle for a while and don't pressure.

Think its why I'm so confused and nervous though, am I misreading all these small signs into something I want them to be when they're nothing but old habits or confusion on w's part and - despite my best intentions - I'm setting myself up for a disappointment.

Well there's only one way I'm going to find out I suppose...

Patience, all is patience.


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015