And again I need to stress the parenting plan! Then your wife will know what time you will be back with the kids and you can avoid this interaction because you don't want to come off as controlling just not a doormat.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction