Zel, V, all - help me figure out how to gently reach. I would love to but I am stumped on how to do this. Reach while not pursuing or stimulating R talk...
Email - what to say? Posted letter - what to say? Phone call - what to say? Text message - what to say? Rock up on his doorstep - what to say? or more importantly what to wear? Seductive lingerie and dressing gown no doubt
I hear you suggesting "fun" and "light-hearted"- how does one go from no contact to proposing something fun? Last time I saw him over drinks I was all PMA while he sat opposite me expressing his frustration at the way of things (throwing peanut shells across the table). The time before that he was sad and scoffed down his food. Very hard to engage in fun/light-heartedness. Please help me see a way past that...
I leave around noon tomorrow. Thanks for all the suggestions V. I've done a few of those things before but may well need to visit them again.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
