I guess I should count myself lucky he doesn't spew, I just feel like I have absolutely no idea what is going on in his head. He never complains, he never tells me how I hurt him, he never talks about a future together or apart. He just doesn't say anything about the future beyond next week. Nothing.
Susana, my H is a lot like this. I have no idea what he's thinking. But I'm grateful he's being a decent guy, good dad, financially responsible. That goes a long way.
