Well that is great considering I did it twice all the way through. In those months we did fight and we had some ok times. We did not leave each others sides at all. But there was a lot of tension because she was always saying we need to temporarily separate when the house is done. There was also tension about having two mortgages which was not necessary because I had all the finances set up in case that happened.

Well on January 2nd she moved out. We did everything together for the first two weeks and kept everything a secret from everyone. We saw each other 4 or 5 times a day and had dinner together at night. Now that I look back I made the mistake of asking her if she missed me all the time and saying I missed her, she always did say yes though. Every week after that we saw each other less and less. Then when watching the Super Bowl I asked her if she would go out on Valentines Day with me. She said yes and was excited the entire first week. Then when it started to get close I could see she was getting nervous. But she still went. We had a great time eating, talking, slow dancing together. I then took her to her house and dropped her off no kiss or anything. That was the last time she told me she loved me or anything. I don't think we have hung out since then either. She said when she looked in my eyes she saw how badly I wanted us to be together again, that we can't continue hanging out so much.

Now she goes out when she wants with out communicating, which is something she always did before.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15