Folks, I'm just so tired. Tired of her misdirected anger, being disrespected, being lied to, having her lie to the kids. Just tired. And through it all, I just love her and treat her like I wish she would treat me. Tired of her selfishness and putting herself over the kids.

So to that end I've decided to rearrange the daycare schedule so she can pick up D from there as opposed from me. It's getting harder to hide my lack of respect for her right now. I would love to have a 3rd party to pick the kids up from on Sundays but I don't want to be too obvious/confrontational about this. That's something I used to struggle with.

I've been told by S that there have been a couple of playmates with a man from her new church and his 3 kids. Oh yeah, & he's going through a divorce.

Does any of this seem reasonable?

& I just sent off a b'day to X MIL with a couple of pics of the kids

Last edited by bravo61; 03/04/15 07:31 AM.

M40 XW35
M11 T15
S9 D5
Bomb 6/3/14
Papers del 10/3/14
D final 12/5/14

I wish I could love you and make you believe it
'Cause that's all you ever wanted
From me