Wife left me three weeks ago!

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Great advice twinmom, I hadn't thought of things like that but now you say it, it does make sense. I won't be moving out, and I will tell her that later today. I won't expose her affair at work either. I haven't until now and I did think it would make reconciliation more difficult in the future if I did.

She had said it was over when she admitted affair. Of course she's done a lot of lying recently. Just two days prior to confronting her she was talking about going out for breakfast with OM after night shifts at work as friends...said we were separated and it didn't matter what I thought. So the turnaround in two days is probably not believable, I guess.

So, no moving out, little contact (ignore calls, texts etc), no asking about OM right now, continue LRT.