Earlier today she sent me an email talking about a trip we went on several years ago. The trip was great, but had a few rough patches due to planning. We couldn't remember the exact dates and her final email said.
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I think it was 5 years ago, since 6 years ago S would only have been 1. And I can say, for the record, I wasn’t disappointed in that trip whatsoever! It was fun and I had a great time with you. We had a lot of wonderful special amazing times together.
Now this is a big step, because she has been saying things have been bad for the majority of our relationship, that she has been unhappy since before we got married. So her saying that this trip (which I thought was bad) was good, that is a step in the right direction, right?
Then when she came to pick up S, she wouldn't even come into the house past the front rug, asking S to get his shoes/jacket on. And was out the door with a "bye". Things would be so much easier if we weren't doing a 2-2-3 schedule with our kids, then I wouldn't have to see her so often (even on her days, she drops the kids off in the morning, since I work after she does). I just don't know what to do, no matter how bad I try to detach this type of conversations keep coming up. I just want her back, I just want to make our relationship work, I just want my life back the way it was before all of this, but better. HELP!
Last edited by EyeTie; 03/04/1504:34 AM.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
