Wife left me three weeks ago!

[twinmom]

I can tell you what the outcome will be if you don't follow the advice here......
Your wife will walk all over you.

I was a slow learner.... wanted to "nice" my husband back..... ummmmmmm nope!

Listen to the advice you are given!!!

It doesn't matter if your wife is at a soccer game tonight with OM. She hasn't promised no contact, coming back to the marriage and working on things with you. You ACT as if she were still in an active affair until she promises those things and you have Intel to prove no contact.

Right now you need to let her do her thing. I know how hard that is. I have been there! Just one year ago my H was moving in with OW and taking my kids there 3 days/2 nights a week.

Don't make the same mistakes I made, understand these are her mistakes to make.