What I am saying but perhaps not typing is that you are laying how this relationship goes at her feet. You aren't giving any sort of consequences for her intolerable actions. I don't believe she is confused, she doesn't know how to take care of herself or her kids and she is looking for Mr. Moneybags to take care of her.

At that point I suppose she will be gone. You ask about her coming back to you when she comes to her senses but the question you really need to be asking is why on earth would you want her, even if she comes back. You are a great guy and you need to think better of yourself than thinking you need to accept her breadcrumbs.

I have been there. I am only trying to get you to see what you are doing by letting her decide how this relationship goes. Gee I had even told my ex they could still be friends if he would stay. I lost all self respect. I mean really, if the scum of the Earth didnt want me,who would?

Well, I tell you what, he is out there, he just doesn't know he is looking for me yet. smile. It only took six years to get there.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory