Do you guys think I'm a b!tch?? Why do I worry so so much that he thinks Im a B!tch. Why do I give a Sh!t worrying about what he thinks.
Ummm.... NO! Not even close, Brook! He asked you a question and you gave him an answer. Maybe it wasn't what he wanted, maybe it was, but you simply answered.
I think his line of questioning was geared towards you changing you habits to suit him. Or questioning the way you do things.... too bad, buddy.
I get why you worry about looking like a b. I think bc we work really hard on taking the high road that we question things like being curt or honest... or saying things they don't want to hear. Or, perhaps, to not be on the receiving end of crazy. Then, there is also the fact that we didn't cause what they did, and don't want to give them a reason to justify what they have done.
I think, in a way, too, we just aren't that person. We loved and shared a life with this person, and regardless of their actions, it is unnatural for us to behave that way towards this person.
Honestly, Brook, I don't think you did anything wrong at all! If he doesn't like your answer, that's something he has to live with. Don't make his issues yours. Don't doubt or question yourself. You are a role model for dignity and grace. He knows that, too. Probably what frustrates him. Because he CAN'T justify it. No sweat, Brook. Keep your head up!
