Still Smiling

[BklynMom]

I just need to post my email exchange with ex today since I am beating myself up for not replying so nicely too him. I am just so tired of his passive aggressive BS and honestly as a working single mom of 2 - i don't have the time or the energy to review & edit my emails all day. I am so done with him.
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FROM EX:

(some talk about soccer for the kids and then)

on a couple of other things:
D6 - i have been working on shampooing and brushing her hair last couple of visits. this last weekend, got all the tangles out, which caused a lot of tears, but her hair was so much easier to comb the next day. she promised to keep brushing so it wouldn’t hurt like that. i don’t know if she talked to you about it.

D4 - is she still getting the pacifier? she hasn’t with me since she was 3. and she’s been fine. i wonder if that is contributing to her reluctance to leave with me when i pick them up? is she sleeping in her bed at your house?

exH

ME
Okay glad you can make on time this Friday. My mom will be at home with the girls.

D4s soccer is 10A at the armory on Saturday and I am sure it will be okay if D6 misses a game or two. D4 would not be on the team she would just have the Sat morning class.

D6 has not mentioned shampooing or brushing to me. We continue to maintain our regular hygeine habits and I brush through her tangles onces a week or so when I have the time.

D4 still uses the pacifier and sleeps in bed with me and she's been fine. I have no idea if that is contributing to her reluctance to leave with you but my parenting methods have been made simpler now and I do not want to make bedtime more difficult for me or D4 or for my mother. I am sure she will grow out of both those habits.

Bklyn
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Do you guys think I'm a b!tch?? Why do I worry so so much that he thinks Im a B!tch. Why do I give a Sh!t worrying about what he thinks.

PS Thanks Lorilai for the Hindsight recommendation I will check it out this weekend