Wife left me three weeks ago!

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OK, thanks for the advice.

I am not sure of the right thing to do here. Hopefully I'm a quick learner. Any predictions on what the outcome would be should I follow your advice regarding staying put. Obviously in the short term my wife will be fuming but won't this just drive hee away quicker. I know she's acting unreasonably but if she comes back home I will be in the same street as her/kids.

Another thing to mention is my wife very unusually bought tickets to a premier league football game for here in the UK. Her father has an association with the club and can get tickets himself so it is very odd she bought them. A few weeks ago she asked whether such and such would be a good game. She paid for the tickets. There was also a football shirt in our house that she'd bought which she said was for a work colleague and that her F was going to get signed and pass back for charity. It made me think, why didn't the work colleague buy it herself? Why did W buy tickets for her F when he can get his own free tickets directly? Ofncourse it made me think both are for OM. I did confront wife over this about 2-3 week's ago. She gave reasons listed above. The game in question is this evening. I wonder if it coincides with her argument with parents. She would need someone to mind kids again to go to the game, she went out 2 nights ago, and my guess is they may have said enough is enough prompting her call to me. Of course I coukd be way off but it's just laying here in bed that all this information has come together in my mind.

I feel confused. I've arranged another coaching session but it is almost a week ffom now. I'm not sure what to do at the moment.

Thanks for your continuing advice guys.