Mr. Bond, Thank you for this response! This is what I hoped to hear. I'll read the book as soon as it arrives (and probably re-read it a few times).

I don't fully understand the LRT and have just assumed Sandi's 37 rules was the LRT.

Should I continue doing Sandi's list?

M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D