WAW-- LRT in action

[MrBond]

First of all, you don't have to do the "LRT". You don't understand what that means and what "going dim" means. Your W hasn't initiated D or pushed for a L, etc.

Right now your W has been consistent in saying that you didn't appreciate the things she did for you. This includes doing the household chores.

Have you stepped it up in helping her? You say that her LL is Acts of Service, so what have you been doing to do that? Right now things are going on the right track. Take it slow and easy. Stop pressuring her with R talks. Get to enjoy one another again. That's what she wants. You can guide her to the right path gently. But make it HER decision.