So nice to hear from you Jaye!! You sound GOOD despite all the dysfunction surrounding you. So sad to hear about your kids' problems with drugs and mental illness. It must be so hard for you. I can't believe the twins are 18; where has the time gone??? Sorry to hear you lost WonderfulJob but it sounds like you've found an even more WonderfulJob! Congratulations!
Is your H still trying to make a living as a professional gambler? You'll be amazed at the peace you'll experience once he's gone. My ex is back with his mom too (after an extended 5 month congugal visit to Moscow ) and is VERY unhappy but I feel as if an oppressive black cloud has blown out of my house.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17