I can imagine you would feel utterly repulsed on your way to STD testing. I'm sorry you had even a passing encounter with him at that time, it can't have helped.
I know how awful it is for you to see your D14 hurting... but be glad she's being so open with you. It sure beats the alternative, I can tell you.
I like how resolved you are, Ahoy. I hope you're letting your hurt and anger out in other ways? I can't imagine all this is hitting you as stoically as you sometimes sound.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15