Well I saw my wife at my daughter's game after not really talking much today. She tried to come into the back office were I was working today between patients but I was on the phone with the bank so we didn't talk. I was suppose to go out on my first appointment today with a client (I am now a Real Estate Agent). That appointment got cancelled but I stayed dressed up and wearing cologne all day. She was a little taken back by that and made a comment about it while we were at the game. We had small talk at the game and I let her lead the conversation. She then asked me if I drove by the office today in the afternoon. I said yes I was on my way home from getting a Gym Membership. She looked stunned at first then she was like that would be good for you getting out of the house.

After the game ended my daughter and I went to my car and my wife was kind of standing by her car giving us a confused look.

I have not called or texted her all day but she has not either but the changes seem to have her on her toes. I also keep catching her looking at my hand. I do continue to wear my wedding ring and will until at least the day the divorce papers are signed ..I don't know if she feels guilty about not wearing hers or not because she keeps her hand in a fist or covers it now so nobody sees she is not wearing hers in public.

If nothing else I feel better about myself after today. In the perfect world my little family will be reunited. But if I am not given the chance I will work on myself and be fine.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15