Yep, that's why I've been more vocal about some of this stuff even though it goes against some DB principles. I realize now that even at the sacrifice of a chance that we can R, W needs to get healthy to be the best mom she can be for the little ones.
Also, you hit in something else we discussed today, our faith and how it affects our viewpoints of the sitch. W said God gave her the strength to walk away. That she's a better christian now that she's left the marriage because she was 'angry' all the time when married. I replied that being 'angry' doesn't mean that you are not a good christian, Jesus got angry too in the bible. I then added that I feel God is telling me to be patient and love. I said to her, "W, this bothers me everyday that both of us feel God is leading us, but for each of us it is in opposite directions"
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
