Yeah we just had a fight in between dinner and drinks. I'm sitting on a bench and H stated he was going to go down to the bar. God forbid I ask him to put his cell phone away or tell him that while he's staring at it and trying to multitask our conversations I feel like he's not interested in me. This has been bothering me for weeks and of course I bring it up tonight when he snaps at me. Awesome. Ends with him telling me how unhappy I am. I say maybe he is the one that is unhappy, and he says it's entirely possible. F'ing awesome.

So I can sit here
Go join him at the bar.
Go home

Ppl were supposed to meet us out in 30'.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.