M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
I know it feels like a long while ago and the first page of my this thread, but thank you all for the voice of confidence in my ability to manage this in house S.
I discussed this in a call with my IC, and whether the stress was causing me to lose PMA. IC was of the same opinion that despite my reservations and obvious distress and despondency there is more progress than I give myself credit for. Largely I believe thanks to 12 steps and I reflect on this a great deal. DB is also of great importance to me and how I can measure progress.
In case visitors to my thread have guessed incorrectly, V likes numbers and measuring., evaluating and nurding. It is an ADD attribute and can be very boring....
RPP, I am also musing on your concerns about my sitch and whether I do stuff my feelings down. This needs more thought. Your thread locked and my post that was going to solve world hunger never was posted.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Hi V....glad to hear you are still feeling strong. You are managing and checking your balances so I am confident you will know when things are paying off or there are losses that need to be cut. As along as you feel good and sure that's all that matters
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
RPP, I am also musing on your concerns about my sitch and whether I do stuff my feelings down. This needs more thought. Your thread locked and my post that was going to solve world hunger never was posted.
V
New thread opened this morning!
Sorry about the business snafu, seems like you handled it well.
Oh, V, if you do know how to solve world hunger then do please let me know. It would help immensely with my next promotion.
Like you, I am also into numbers and measuring and evaluating....sometimes I ponder whether I could entice everyone over to a SurveyMonkey and do a bit of research on our cohort. There's a wealth of knowledge and data in these boards, if only someone could analyse it and share the results!
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
