Stay put and stop taking to her, lol
Seriously......
Tell her you are not moving out. If she wants to live there that is fine but some boundaries need to be put in place.

GET A PARENTING PLAN IN PLACE!!

This is going to suck and hurt but you NEED to accept it, you will not be able to see your kids every day.

Work out a schedule, put it in writing and do NOT deviate unless necessary. Don't take the daily calls from her. If it's an emergency she WILL leave a message. Let her call/text all day then send her one text at night answering things that warrant a response and the things that don't just ignore them.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction