Testing me today (I think).

Sent a few mundane (unnecessary) emails, a text and a voicemail today. I only responded, politely but succinctly, to matters that had to do with watching the kids tonight for her IC appointment.

Now ever since I got home and tried to do my own thing and detach, she has come into the room I am and initiated minutiae small talk. Again I only respond politely and succinctly, no advice on what to make for dinner, etc, just actively listening.

Then she gets frustrated, saying I've been quiet lately. She goes, "can you tell me what's going on? I want to have a good relationship with you Bing." Relationship clearly meaning friends (our first D mediation which I scheduled is on for Thursday).

I just smiled and said "I'm fine." And she rolled her eyes and left the room... Ok.


Me: 30 W: 25
D4, D1
Undiscovered EA/PA since 6/2014
BD: 2/6/15
Living together - in limbo