Seems like the end of the line anyway for your M so I see nothing wrong with seeking out other women. We all have our needs.

If W was indicating a reluctance to D or any sign of a desire to R then it would be different. But you both seem to be past a point of no return. Just make the best of it.

But make sure you get a good lawyer. I got screwed in my first D. Love is grand, but D is 400 grand.


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014