Dang it Sandi!! I love your posts!! No more deleting them before you send them to me! LOL!! You have helped me a ton. Thank You for that. So far I have detached alot. I feel alot better about standing up to what I think is right no matter the outcome. This is how I used to be. I have let her blame me for all of these problems lately. I have struggled so much with what to do. It wasn't until I came here that I began to see what I needed to do for myself. I know I have my issues to work on, but I know it is not my fault she has decided this type of lifestyle or that she has chose to talk to other men. And I do believe she has been texting someone. Why else would she hide the cell phone account so much??? But it doesn't matter. In a few days I am getting my own cell phone account:)


Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
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