The questions:

Where is this place?
This piece of mail, it got taken care of?

Probably pretty indicative of where we stand if harmless surface question like that get so much pushback. I am not used to smiling and being a deferential wife figure. I probably get more insulted than I should when he tells me not to worry about it.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.