You can learn new behaviors. We can always learn new patterns and behaviors. One needs to put some work into it. You can Google on how to properly romance your spouse (not now!).
As you know by now, marriage takes work. Takes nurturing and attention for it to thrive. Likewise with a flower...more soil, more fertilizer, more sun, etc. so it can bloom in all of its glory.
This was always something I was confused about. I understand I cannot do the romance thing now, but how do you show the WAS that you can now do it if they are not receptive?
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner