She asked me this morning how my wine tasting was. All I answered was it was great. And I asked back how the ski trip was. She copied my short response and just said it was good. That was the whole conversation.
My mentor said why don't you just be yourself when she asks you sth. Tell her sth about the night, be enjoyable but don't overdo it or make it too long but why don't you tell her enthusiastically about it? If you are short and distant she will do the same to you. She's copying your behaviour.
Whats your thought on this? To me it makes sense.
A lot of us kept it short because a WAS lies and gaslights a lot. So it can be stressful to truly communicate with them.
If it is a db coach I would seriously consider the advise because they are familiar with these situations.
