Masterpiece still in progress...

[Jer2911]

Thanks kml and Wonka -- your responses are in complete alignment with what my therapist told me this afternoon as well as the opinion of both her family member (who is involved in this) and her own mother.

Everything that is happening to her is a direct result of the choices that she has made.

And FWIW -- just got an email from the other "star" of the weekend family event expressing his love for me and his sadness that I was not there in person. He shared a link to the videos that were played at the event and in one of the videos there were a couple of photos that included me (group family shots from over the years).

I had a pretty good IC this afternoon. Completely convinced now that I just need to get out of here and let W spin her little path of destruction through her own life.

I just wish that moving out didn't also mean creating a broken home for our kids -- but I have no choice in the matter... Again, one of the consequences of W's actions -- but she isn't seeing the negative impact (on the kids) and isn't owning up to any of the negative consequences in her own life... Everything right now is still everyone else's fault. Definitely acting like a teenager right now.