Specific question regarding communication with W.

She asked me this morning how my wine tasting was. All I answered was it was great. And I asked back how the ski trip was. She copied my short response and just said it was good. That was the whole conversation.

My mentor said why don't you just be yourself when she asks you sth. Tell her sth about the night, be enjoyable but don't overdo it or make it too long but why don't you tell her enthusiastically about it?
If you are short and distant she will do the same to you. She's copying your behaviour.

Whats your thought on this? To me it makes sense.

Last edited by Complex; 03/03/15 09:08 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15