I've tried finding evidence of an A, but haven't gotten any solid leads. I honestly think she's just a WAW, but until I have some sort of evidence, even circumstantial, I'll just keep doing 180's and GAL. Thank you for responding!

If and when she reveals an A, I'll be much better equipped to deal with it than if I hadn't read all these threads. I can tell she is trying and reaching out, but everything she has said is in the WAS script. I'm mentally bracing myself for that possibility.

I really wish I hadn't planned that date for friday. It was supposed to be a 180. I planned for someone to watch the kids, got a hotel, called our friends who survived an A and are now very strong together. I can tell it's much too soon and I'll probably go through with it and have a good time, even if just pretending.

M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D