I think this is more about a boundary and respect issue with you and W - not about what may be happening in her R with OM.

IMO, it is unreasonable for a WW to have a convo of that kind with her LBH about OM - with whom she has betrayed your vows and disrespected your M. She is trying to treat you as though you are her best friend - and you are her husband - who has been betrayed.

So, for me, it is about setting a boundary that she is respectful to you.

Last edited by Toots; 03/03/15 08:49 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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