I just ordered the book from Amazon and hope to get it tomorrow. I have not sat around and did nothing. I have tried the Love Dare twice and read about 5 other books.

The question was asked about lunch. Well my wife is a dentist and I do all her book keeping and insurance work. I used to go in around lunch time we would talk at lunch and then I would work until it was time for me to pick up our daughter from school. This has since stopped since the separation, she now has to go to her house to take the dogs out.

I have since my first post gone back to school and got my real estates certificate. I am trying to get it started but it does take a little time to get your first listing.

My daughter and I are going away to NJ this weekend to visit family. This is the first time going with out my W. I worry if I am making the right decision by leaving her behind but that is part of detaching.

sandi2 you hit the nail right on the head. I was hoping she would realize she missed me and would want me back in her life.

I did go and get a gym membership today so I can get back into working out. I am wearing cologne, so I smell good. I will see W tonight at my daughters game tonight. We still sit together but I think all of our friends that know nothing are going to pick up on her now wearing her ring anymore. I am trying to be sure I eat 3 meals a day. The past month I have only eaten 1 meal a day and a protein shake.

The reason I stopped posting the first time was not being lazy or giving up. I was not getting any responses from my posts.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15